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More respect to the ladys please.

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Joined on 10 May 2005
Total posts: 99

Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Wednesday, 28 February 2007 16:19

pinkpapaya:

In a sport where the male typically 'leads' and the lady 'follows' - it is not surprising that the male talent is perceived to set the upper bound for the standard of the partnership as a whole - i.e. regardless of the level of dancing of the lady, her performance can only be seen to be as good as her male partner's performance. So, unfortunately, she is 'limited' in this sense.

However, I think the good thing about a 'partnership' is that both people can work together and motivate each other to improve. Even in a slightly unbalanced partnership, where the female may be more experienced than the male, or vice-versa, the experienece of one can motivate, encourage and assist the other to improve to a higher level for the partnership as a whole. Of course, the trick is to be able to work together effectively to make this happen!



No offence to the male egos, but the lady is more independant as a dancer than you may think. Most of us can pretty well deal on our own...except of course for the dips and new yorks and stuff, which may I say, the men can't do alone either. Therefore, the male leads, the lady follows, but the product is more of a partnership rarther than a simple lead and follow.
I do also agree that it is the men that are judged more than the ladies these days, but it wasn't always this way. If we rewind to the 80's or 90's, men were stiffer, less theatrical, and the lady was the jewel. I think, the men  have stepped up to the plate, and stole the lady's spotlight.
Joined on 26 Feb 2007
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Wednesday, 28 February 2007 18:33

I want to make it clear, that I just want judges to take the dancing females serious.

When they are bad, judge them bad.

When they are good, show them respect.

If both the man and the female are a perfect match, let it be judged well.

Please take care that we respect the ladies, otherwise make competitions for sole male dancers.

But I would then miss something.

Joined on 28 Jan 2003
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Wednesday, 28 February 2007 20:38

In the standard/ballroom dances then I perceive that perhaps it is more about the man, he has to provide the frame and the lead for his lady to follow and a good lady dancer will do just that. However, the understanding that I have always had of the latin dances is that the man is there to present the lady and that she should be the main focus of attention.  Perhaps nowadays though that is a bit of an old fashioned idea?? 
Joined on 09 May 2006
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Wednesday, 28 February 2007 22:19

I can only talk for the comps I watch or compete in. And they are mostly on the west coast USA, there are at least 3 couples on the top of my head (dancing latin), where the female is far superior to the male and they generally beat other couples which I think they are better as a couple. As far as the judges I talked to, their point of view is I cant rank her lower than this or that couple because she is so good.

 So at least for US west coast goes, females definitely do count and seems to me that the judges seem to be fine.

 About the ballroom side of the story, I agree no painting looks beatiful in an ackward frame :)


Joined on 31 Dec 2005
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Thursday, 01 March 2007 01:33

As it has already been pointed out 10-20years ago the ladies used to count more in latin.  The shift is in my opinion due to the increased depth of the sport.  There are many many great lady dancers that have flawless technique, speed and presentation.  Outside of the few top women who have a bit extra or their own style, Lunis, Carmen, come to mind, the large majority are almost indistinguishable.  The top men on the other hand have a much greater variety of styles and techniques, hence they become the deciding factor. If more women assert their role as the stylistic director of the couple instead of dancing lwith default styling their impact on the couples placement will be more pronounced.
Joined on 02 Jul 2005
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Thursday, 01 March 2007 15:47

xxcraboxx:
As it has already been pointed out 10-20years ago the ladies used to count more in latin.  The shift is in my opinion due to the increased depth of the sport.  There are many many great lady dancers that have flawless technique, speed and presentation.  Outside of the few top women who have a bit extra or their own style, Lunis, Carmen, come to mind, the large majority are almost indistinguishable.  The top men on the other hand have a much greater variety of styles and techniques, hence they become the deciding factor. If more women assert their role as the stylistic director of the couple instead of dancing lwith default styling their impact on the couples placement will be more pronounced.

 

Actually if we don’t consider just the TOP couples who get their right appreciation and judgment any way, we will find that many Amateurs are “style clones” of TOP professionals.  

However, if we look closer we’ll find quite few good female dancer (with personal style and technique) lost some where in the first rounds. How about the ladies who have those qualities but do not have a proper man to support them? They still don’t get the right appreciation from judges, so basically they can reasonably ask: ‘why try?!’

We can of course suggest that they find another male partner who will be equally as creative in style and as good in technique. But how can they if there is 1 partner for 10 girls (exaggerating of course) so better stick to the one you already have?! Also considering that girls don’t get too much appreciation from judges, they would probably have trouble finding high level partner due to their results. We all know that for most dancers looking for the partner results, somehow, matter more than the real dancing level.

 So unless women and men are judged equally, most of them don’t have a chance for further improvement and acknowledgment.  

 

Joined on 26 Feb 2007
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Sunday, 04 March 2007 18:04

I do not think that copies are the real masters in the latin world.

If you can go in others footsteps an become nr. 1, thats nothing worth to me.

The females I think of - have there own qualities - show them respect - more respect than the copies.

But maybe it is more easy for a judge to find copies, than to realise true talent and skills for other girls?

show respect for the true latin females - especially the ones - that is not only a copy......

 

Joined on 05 Aug 2005
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Sunday, 04 March 2007 19:19

You may suggest that the adjudicators mark all females and males separately,  and declare the top females and top males ... ???

 

Have you seen in figure skating a male  throwing a female into the air, ever so gracefuly,  she raises up , up towards the ceiling,  you think she will never return back,  he is waiting for her,  she starts decending but $#@ on her beautiful behind.

 

 Should the male be getting great marks and his lady ZERO for the fall ?

 

And oposite,  he throws her so badly she has no time to say 123  and she is spending the rest of her iternity in somersaults,  she was so great, before she squated down as a duck,  she flew through the air as a swan ,  and   it was not her fault, she should not be marked down,  punish the male !

 

In a 2,3,4,5 member skiff,  or in 2,3,4,5   sled racing,  have you ever heard anyone say,  the second and the third rower/runner were superiour to the first and to the fifth ?  Therefore number 2 and 3 should be the winners ?

 

  And if a team  climbs to the top of the mountain, and all fall down the hill because of the failure of one team member, have you seen a report: " Boy,  you should have seen the leader holding on that  rusty  nail,  too bad the others pulled him/her down the hill to their demise. He almost made it to the top".

 

There  is no HE vs. SHE  in dancesport,  this is a team effort and it is not 50:50, sometimes it is 90: 10 another moment it is 10:90,  depending what you dance, what you do....if the genttleman's gear  breaks down ( an open fly with a white shirt finding the way out )  it is a team failure,  if the lady's strap breaks , it is also a team failure.  Those who wrote this is an equal partnership said it right. It is an equal partnership,  and by equal this can be one time 10:90, another time 75: 25 and again 95:5.  The fact is that in dance 1+1 =1  and if HE is unhappy about HER, let THEM figure it out,  and if SHE is unhappy about HIM, let THEM figure it out,  and make appropriate change.  Till then, enjoy the dance,  there is a reason why the two are dancing together.

 

In many sports you will not be counted unless both partners cross the finish line. And if the batton is dropped after the first pass,  too bad for the Olympic Champion who is the last to deliver and win the race,  and too bad for the freestyle swimmer,  who competes his/her last lap swim in an astonishing 'world record'  if his/her team mates completed the backstroke, butterfly and *** stroke a minute after the other teams. ( interesting I can type boob-stroke, but not a breaststroke ;)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Joined on 26 Feb 2007
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Sunday, 04 March 2007 20:30

There  is no HE vs. SHE  in dancesport, you say?

If you read all my text you will realise, that I in fact think, there is a HE vs. a She in dancesport, and that is a problem.

SHE do not stand a chance against a good HE, with a bad lady, so there is a HE vs. a SHE.

Because HE is judged maybe 80% and SHE is judged 20%.

If it was 55% vs 45%  it would give some sense, because HE is leading etc. but 80/20 that is not showing respect to the ladies.

Show respect to the ladies.

 

 

 

Joined on 02 Jul 2005
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Re: More respect to the ladys please.

Sunday, 04 March 2007 21:56

Please notice that in Figure skating the couple is announced first by the Lady'ss name and then her partner. That is actually more correct according to the etiquette. In Dancing the couple is announced by the Male name and then his partner...Even while discussing dance couples (including top professionals) most people just name the Male name though they discuss the couple and not just him. That’s not very respectful!! So if people forget to even mention names of the girls, what kind of ‘respect’ do we expect at all?!

 

By the way…If you say the effort is 90-10 or 10-90…are you suggesting that at this moment the one works like a horse while the other one is smoking a cigar?!

I’m sorry but the team effort means that it’s 50-50, other wise it’s not a team at all if one shows effort of 90 and the other of 10! Only at certain moments the work of one partner is more important than the work of another for creating an overall ‘picture’. But these times their effort still stays 50-50!

So if you see the couple whose effort you can perceive as 90-10 or 60-40 or 25-75 that is not an equal partnership! Unfortunately judges only notice such differences in effort when it comes to low effort of the guy and hard work of the girl- then they judge accordingly, i.e. low marks. But when it comes to a hard effort of the guy and low of the girl, judges seem to not notice the low part…….

Show respect for the ladies!

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